Being Too Available To Her Ruins Attraction

One of the mistakes I see men making a lot with women is being too available to her. It doesn’t matter if she’s a girl you’ve been dating for just a little while or if she’s your wife. In order for her to feel that gut level attraction, she needs to wonder about you. She needs …

Why Is My Ex Still Contacting Me?

This is for those of you whose ex dumped you, you’re in no contact, but she still contacts you. You’re wondering, why is my ex still contacting me? I’ve been through this before, myself, where I’m thinking, “YOU ended things with ME, so why are you still contacting me? I’m not contacting you. What gives?” It’s …

The Importance Of Giving Women Space

For some reason many men believe that they must shower their girl with constant love and attention in order to keep her interest. I can only assume that guys get this from movies and TV, or perhaps they get this idea from friends and family encouraging them to “show her how much you care”. Men then …

6 Signs You’re Over-Pursuing Her

A lot of men screw things up with a woman they’re dating, or even in a relationship with, because they’re over-pursuing her. Sometimes their over-pursuing is obvious, other times it’s very subtle. Either way, a woman senses this by your actions and the overall vibe you’re putting out. Over-pursuing her communicates neediness–a need for her attention, …

No Contact, My Ex and Social Media

A lot of my clients ask me about their ex and social media while in no contact. What does it mean when my ex is watching my stories? What should I do when my ex likes or comments on one of my posts? These are all legit questions and how you handle these situations can make …